Sugar Cookies and Chocolate Kisses

Sugar Cookies and Chocolate Kisses... 

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ne may say I have a sweet tooth just by the labeling of this blog post.  But it’s not quite exactly what the post is about.  The never-ending discussion about black women and their singleness continues even after the so-called end of the world. In my own thinking we can be some very stubborn to death women when it comes to certain issues and no matter how you show them, they will stay in the burning house until it burns down.  Wisdom would dictate if there aren’t any fish or enough fish in a small pond or lake…move to another lake where the fish are biting.  Logic seems to be thrown out of the window when it comes down to black men and their picking in women and their seemingly enormous collective choice not to marry (I wouldn’t either if I were getting the milk for free!!)  Better yet, black women have been in the position of chasing without understanding they are chasing and the men just sit back and become ever more narcissistic, like some desirable commodity placed high in market value. Let the truth be told black women do this. What we need to understand is this need to place the men high is a masculine trait among the women. It is YOU who should be placed in a position of being protected, provided and desired.

This is where some of you get to itching and squirming, as if truth becomes an eczema rash to your conscience…have you not considered looking outside of your race to what *is* available? Men who are willing to marry you, provide and protect and yes find you quite desirable.  There are some women of certain demographics who have not even so much as dated a white male who will say, “But I prefer my black man.” Let me ask you a question.  According to black men’s actions…not his words, does he prefer YOU?  Does he have the same allegiance to you as you have to him? Too many of us listen to words only, without considering what they have actually been doing…or maybe what he lacks in doing. It is like someone saying they prefer chocolate cookies over sugar cookies but never tried a sugar cookie in their life! So the question remains…how do you know you wouldn’t like a sugar cookie? You never tried even one!  Is that wisdom? I highly doubt it. But more than likely the chocolate cookies have plenty of times been eaten by white women LOL. 

Perhaps dear ladies you should take a second look in the bakery store.